There’s a cycle that I see 99% of women moving through on a daily basis. I was stuck in it for years. And it has to stop.

 

See if this sounds at all familiar.

 

>>>Today’s the day. You’ve decided that you’re done feeling just ‘meh’ and trudging through letting life happen TO you.

 

>>>You want to feel light, happy, playful, confident, energetic and even joyful. You’re done settling for anxious, stressed the F out, withdrawn, drained, unconfident, trapped, and helpless.

 

>>>So you start to focus on all of the problems and broken parts of you that need to be fixed. Maybe you even make a list.

• Get my anxiety under control
• Stop bingeing on sugar and wine when I’m bored, frustrated, or pissed off
• Actually start going to the gym
• Find a new job or really a whole new career - figure out my purpose
• Be a better wife and mom, not be so on edge and cranky around my family
• Read the 7+ self-development books I bought this year but haven’t started

 

>>>You buy a new book, sign up at the gym, plan out your new life (starting tomorrow, obviously) and commit to finally fixing yourself.

 

>>> Shockingly, after a few days or even a few hours you’re back to feeling totally overwhelmed and stuck.

 

>>>So you go on a shopping spree, get a large latte, take a long walk through Target, or get your hair and nails done to feel better.

 

And you do feel better. For a little bit. Until you wash your hair, your latte is gone, you’re tired of your wardrobe again or your manicure chips.

And then the cycle starts over.

 

If you’re sitting there nodding your head and thinking ‘Gah!!! YES! Whyyyyyy do I keep doing this to myself?”

 

I need you to know that it’s not your fault.

 

Since you were just a little girl, your culture, parents, teachers and even other women have driven home the message that you are in some way broken or lesser and needing to be fixed.

 

In order to unleash your wildly light, happy, playful, confident, energetic and joyful self you don’t have to fix her.

 

You have to reclaim your power and your pleasure.

 

LOLz wat? Pleasure? Hear me out.

 

Pleasure is the source of our power. And it’s also what our everyday lives and habits deny the most.

 

Pleasure is completely non-sexual. Its’ tuning into the present moment and finding joy in the smells, sights, sensations, and people around you.

 

And it’s also completely sexual. It's slowing down and surrendering to pure ecstatic bliss just because it feels good and you deserve to feel juicy sensual, pleasure.

 

Pleasure is not a lavish add on or an unnecessary splurge. It's your birthright.

 

Pleasure isn’t necessary for survival but it is every part of thriving. Pleasure is presence. Pleasure is unbridled joy and ecstasy. Pleasure is moaning in desire and layering your body in silk. Pleasure is being instead of doing. Pleasure is breathing deep down into the core of your being and fully surrendering.

 

Pleasure is the divine feminine alive, wild, and free.

 

It’s easy to say that in our crazy hectic lives we don’t have the time, money, or energy to prioritize pleasure. Or that we’ve simply forgotten that our lives are SUPPOSED to be full of pleasure and joy.

 

But deep down, the reason we don’t talk about pleasure, the reason we strive to fix ourselves instead of unleashing the good already in us, is because deep down as women we don’t believe we deserve to feel that good.

 

If you’re still reading and are sitting there saying ‘YES, OMG YESSSSS,’ it’s time for you to reclaim your power and liberate your pleasure.

 

You deserve to wake up feeling happy. You deserve to walk through your day confidently, feeling deeply present and joyful. You deserve to laugh till you cry and unapologetically LOVE your life.

 

And it is SO FREAKING possible for you.

 

Yes, it requires work. Yes, it requires showing up in a way that you never have before.

 

But I can promise you it is one of the most rewarding and liberating paths you will ever take in your life.

 

And, *gasp* you might even find it feels a whole lot more like play and fun than work.

 

If this has resonated with you, do yourself a favor and jump on a call with me!

 

We’ll figure out exactly what’s holding you back from liberating your pleasure, power, and joy. More importantly, we’ll identify exasctly what we need to do to break you free.

 

I soooo can’t wait for us to chat!

 

Your pleasure and joy liberating coach,

Xo,

Julia